Last night…late last night I was flipping through the 400 channels of nothing on cable TV when I spotted a familiar scene from an old movie.
It was the last 10 minutes of one of my favorite tear-jerkers Imitation of Life, starring Lana Turner, , , , and John Gavin.
Lana Turner stars as a struggling actress whose success means she spends less time with her daughter, played by Sandra Dee. Juanita Moore plays Annie Johnson and her fair-skinned, mixed-race daughter, whose desire to live another life, broke her mother’s heart.
The crying starts in the last scene of Annie’s (Juanita Moore) funeral makes me cry every time.How can you help yourself?
If you have never seen this 1959 melodrama, I am sorry for the spoiler.
Get Out Your Tissues
This funeral rivals the services for JFK and Princess Diana, complete with horse-drawn carriages, teary-eyed mourners, and a Dixieland band. Mahalia Jackson singing a tragic gospel song about dying, Lana Turner and Sandra Dee bawling their eyes out and being comforted by a misty-eyed John Gavin.
Every single person who appeared in the movie is crying like a baby because they loved her so much. But where is Annie’s beloved and ungrateful daughter, Sarah Jane?
Cut to the outside of the church where throngs of people watch Annie’s flower-covered coffin being loaded into the hearse. Then, from out of the crowd you hear her. Wearing an old beat up coat and hat, looking downtrodden and bedraggled.
It’s Sarah Jane, coming home at last, but too late to see her long-suffering mother being laid to rest. She pushes her way through the crowd, throws open the back doors of the car and [this is part that always gets me] lays herself across her mother’s coffin to beg her forgiveness.
“Oh mama, I’m sorry. I’m so sorry… John Gavin brings her into the car where Lana Turner comforts her…”Oh Miss Laura, I killed my mother“. (excuse me, I need a minute…Ok, I’m Ok now).
I know, this is schmaltz at it best/worst. But sometimes a girl just needs to cry and they just don’t make sad chick flicks like this anymore.
It gave me the idea for this blog. A place for movies that women love. The romantic comedies, the tear-jerkers, the fairytale fantasies, the movie that stars the gorgeous man who comes to your rescue (even though you can rescue yourself). All them in one place.
What do you think? In honor of the many tears I have shed at the movies, here is my list of the saddest chick flicks. What movies bring a tear to your eyes?
Here is the list of my favorite tear-jerkers. I have also updated the list to include some suggestions from reader comments.
Barbara Stanwick is wonderful as the tacky, but self-sacrificing mother. Don’t bother with the Bette Midler remake.
2. Imitation of Life
Two mothers from different walks of life struggle to raise their daughters.
3. Madame X
Another Lana Turner movie about the depth of a mother’s love.
4. Now, Voyager
Bette Davis goes from old maid to gorgeous and finds love at last.
Bette Davis as a spoiled socialite who falls in love with a country doctor.
A loving tribute to movies and the power of love. A must see for movie lovers.
BFFs Bette Midler and Barbara Hersey meet as children and continue their friendship as adults, going through life’s ups & downs together.
Let me just tell you, I saw this movie one Sunday afternoon a few weeks after having lost my little dog. I cried so hard, I had a headache.
Finally one about fathers and sons. Tim Burton’s fantasy still brings a tear to my eye. The great British actor Albert Finney stars with Billy Crudup.
11. The Notebook
You will always need a box of tissue when you read a Nicholas Sparks novel. The same can be said for his movies. Although the book Message in a Bottle was better than the movie, it is still worth renting.
Starring Ryan Gosling, Rachel McAdams, Gena Rowlands, and James Garner, The Notebook is the all-time most romantic tearjerker ever!
12. Terms of Endearment
The relationship between a mother and daughter is put to the test.
13. Mr. Holland’s Opus
Richard Dreyfuss stars as a music teacher who learns that his life really does have meaning.
14. Bridges of Madison County
Meryl Streep as a lonely Midwestern housewife who falls for a world=traveling photojournalist, played by Clint Eastwood. The scene in the car at the red light…that’s all I’m going to say.
Steven Spielberg’s Oscar-winning masterpiece about a Swedish industrialist efforts to save Jewish factory workers in Nazi Germany.
No. It’s not really a chick flick., but I dare you not to shed a tear when you see the little girl in the red coat.
Matthew Brodrick, Cary Elwes and a young extremely talented Denzel Washing star in this epic Civil War story. It is the one movie that also makes men cry. “Oh yeah…you’re not crying, you just have something in your eye.”
17. Notting Hill (added by Diane Lee)
You know how I feel about Julia Roberts.
18. Moulin Rouge (added by Windy)
It is a sad chick flick, not to mention the fact that it is a musical. But is not one of my favorites. Although the song “Come What May” at the end of the movie is worth it.
19. Bambi (added by Gwen)
Does anyone in a Disney movie ever have both parents?
That is my Top 20 Saddest Chick Flicks, but here a few more that will have you reaching for a jumbo box of Kleenex.
- Where The Red Fern Grows (added by Gwen)
- Old Yeller
- Kramer vs. Kramer
- The Color Purple
- Legends of the Fall
- It’s A Wonderful Life
- Steel Magnolias
- Life Is Beautiful
- What Dream May Come
- Les Miserables